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Good Morning
Back in the day I use to fear morning sex. If there was even a hint of it I would lay awake all night. Why? To be sure I would wake up first, brush my teeth, use the bathroom and do a quick wash up. I would then slide back into bed and lay there still. I honestly think the only thing I didn’t do was apply make up. I am happy to say that things changed. I have turned into a lover of morning sex. Being single kind of sucks right now because we are entering the fall season where the chilly night and mornings lend perfectly to snuggling…
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Lingerie isn’t Always Leather and Lace
I have said it before and I’ll say it again, lingerie isn’t always leather and lace. I hadn’t planned on posting this but scrolling through some pictures this one popped up. Lingerie for me use to be fancy sexy outfits. I avoided them because I never felt I looked good in those types of outfits. My view on that has changed over time. I can find sexy in almost anything now. Sexy is a feeling on the inside, not the clothing on the outside. Not to say that clothing can’t make you feel sexy. Of course, it can! I have just embraced sexy in all my clothes. This grey tank…
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Talk to Me, About Me
Talk to me, or about me; it will be something I obsess over. I have always had a paranoia about people talking about me. It didn’t matter if they were saying good things or bad things; I always thought people were talking. It wasn’t until recently that I found there are times I don’t mind it at all. I use to be worried that people would talk about me. If I was the first to leave a group, the entire way home was thoughts of what they said the minute I left. It didn’t matter if my brain allowed me to think there were good things to be said, I…
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Prioritizing
Prioritizing is an ever-changing and ongoing task in my daily routine. I don’t like clutter anywhere. My house and my desk are usually well put together and ready for the occasional unexpected guest. Just don’t open a draw or cabinet. I am reasonably skilled at organizing. Where I fall short in maintaining the organization that I have set in place, sometimes its a week, month, or even a year, but eventually, I find myself organizing again. When do I start the reorganization? When I am avoiding doing something that I don’t want to do or makes me uncomfortable. Prioritizing isn’t something that I am bad at doing. Like organizing, I…
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Fantasies
Fantasies are sometimes more memories I would like to alter. “Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living, it’s a way of looking at life through the wrong end of a telescope, and that enables you to laugh at life’s realities.” ~ Dr. Seuss Dr. Seuss always has an interesting take on things. I never thought of it this way. Looking through the wrong end of a telescope is a task in itself, I suppose. I do fantasize quite a bit. I am not sure my thoughts are all fantasies, though. I can drift away to a different place and a different world or the other time from a memory easier…
