• Wine and whiskey four women grey shirts all say day drinking because 2020 sucks arm in arm no faces visible
    Friendship,  Sisterhood,  Trust

    Two Parts Wine, Two Parts Whiskey

    Whiskey, wine, and women have been, for the past year, a theme in my existence. Usually, they are experienced separately. This weekend, they were all together in beautiful harmony. I never imagined that my need to get out of my environment to someplace new for the first time since the pandemic hit would lead to one of the best weekends in my memory to date. Four women and a dog head out to a little town in West Virginia to escape our realities. We packed comfy clothes, lots of food, and a lot of wine and whiskey. We were all struggling. It wasn’t just the pandemic but the personal issues…

  • morning sunrise over the ocean and beach
    Kink of the Week,  QuoteQuest

    Good Morning

    Back in the day I use to fear morning sex. If there was even a hint of it I would lay awake all night. Why? To be sure I would wake up first, brush my teeth, use the bathroom and do a quick wash up. I would then slide back into bed and lay there still. I honestly think the only thing I didn’t do was apply make up. I am happy to say that things changed. I have turned into a lover of morning sex. Being single kind of sucks right now because we are entering the fall season where the chilly night and mornings lend perfectly to snuggling…

  • lingerie black and white photo with clevage and long dark braided hair
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    Lingerie isn’t Always Leather and Lace

    I have said it before and I’ll say it again, lingerie isn’t always leather and lace. I hadn’t planned on posting this but scrolling through some pictures this one popped up. Lingerie for me use to be fancy sexy outfits. I avoided them because I never felt I looked good in those types of outfits. My view on that has changed over time. I can find sexy in almost anything now. Sexy is a feeling on the inside, not the clothing on the outside. Not to say that clothing can’t make you feel sexy. Of course, it can! I have just embraced sexy in all my clothes. This grey tank…

  • talk to me two people sitting on a beach with a can of soda/beer between them dark blue sky
    Kink of the Week,  Memes and Things

    Talk to Me, About Me

    Talk to me, or about me; it will be something I obsess over. I have always had a paranoia about people talking about me. It didn’t matter if they were saying good things or bad things; I always thought people were talking. It wasn’t until recently that I found there are times I don’t mind it at all. I use to be worried that people would talk about me. If I was the first to leave a group, the entire way home was thoughts of what they said the minute I left. It didn’t matter if my brain allowed me to think there were good things to be said, I…

  • prioritize desk with a chalk board of list of things to do pad and pen and coffee on a desk
    Erotic Journal Challenge,  Memes and Things

    Prioritizing

    Prioritizing is an ever-changing and ongoing task in my daily routine. I don’t like clutter anywhere. My house and my desk are usually well put together and ready for the occasional unexpected guest. Just don’t open a draw or cabinet. I am reasonably skilled at organizing. Where I fall short in maintaining the organization that I have set in place, sometimes its a week, month, or even a year, but eventually, I find myself organizing again. When do I start the reorganization? When I am avoiding doing something that I don’t want to do or makes me uncomfortable. Prioritizing isn’t something that I am bad at doing. Like organizing, I…