BDSM

This category is wide open for anything kinky!  My experiences, fantasies, questions, stories, opinions and anything else that comes to my kinky mind. Weekly memes and prompts from other amazing blogs and kinky folks.

  • white body with black strap bathing suit
    Aging,  BDSM,  Decisions,  Every Damn Day in June,  Kink of the Week,  kinks,  Self Love

    Feeling Strappy Kinks

    I am feeling strappy kinks!  Maybe I am feeling strappy because it has been forever since I have experienced them.  I love straps of any kind, in clothing, and how they feel when they graze my body.  My biggest kink (thus far) is impact play.  Spanking, crops, and belts have been my experience, and I love them all.  Flogging is something that I have not experienced but hope that someday I will.  Until then, I will settle for soft straps across my body.  This suit was ordered during one of my sleep shopping nights.  Silly, I know, but I honestly don’t remember ordering this!  It came in the mail, and…

  • White woman hazel eye color low makeup close up
    BDSM,  kinks

    Watch me

    Will you still watch me after I am gone?  Will you try to see what I am doing, how I am doing?  Will you track me through my blog or social media?  Will you wonder if I do things the same way? When you would watch me before you would smile your wicked smile.  I was never left to my own decisions and followed your orders to the last degree.  This is what gave you that wicked smile.  What would your smile look like if you were to watch me making my own decisions? Would you watch me if I decided to trace my body with my fingertips?  Watching the…

  • finger trace male hands female backside black and white
    BDSM,  kinks

    Tracing a Finger

    For all the thrills we get from our kinks, impact play, bondage, suspension, there is also the lighter side we don’t often hear as much about.  Or perhaps it is that I don’t talk about it as much, read about it as much or focus on it as much as I do the other kinks I enjoy.  The tracing of a finger, the long stare, eyes connected and no need to look away.  These are things that have been brought to my attention lately. It has been a year since my D/s relationship ended.  Much of my focus has been on the loss kinks that I enjoyed during the time…

  • BDSM,  Decisions,  Every Damn Day In June,  Memes and Things

    Survive

    Surviving has been something I have done my entire life.  Like most people.  I am not unique in this quest.  The quest for happiness and well being.  The search and desire for a happy family, healthy children.  The continued fight for good health and a strong body.  Regardless of what our goals we all want to survive.  The level of survival is key to me, particularly at this point in my life. At 15 our family home caught fire.  My parents and my sister and I were out of town.  The furnace ignited and eventually blew up.  The entire inside of the house was in flames, only the outside shell…

  • BDSM,  Decisions,  Experiences,  kinks,  Lifestyle,  Memes and Things

    Rituals

    Rituals can be the bane of my existence at times.  I know I have them, I just don’t always follow through with them. My usual morning rituals or routine, are set and that usually goes really well.  I know what I have to do to get out the door.  Night time rituals are not as set in stone.  I don’t always wash my face (I know that is horrible), so when I do I am super proud of myself.  I have tried setting times, etc., but the night time seems more difficult for me to get into the swing. Sexually, to be honest, it has been so long I don’t…