BDSM

This category is wide open for anything kinky!  My experiences, fantasies, questions, stories, opinions and anything else that comes to my kinky mind. Weekly memes and prompts from other amazing blogs and kinky folks.

  • finger trace male hands female backside black and white
    BDSM,  kinks

    Tracing a Finger

    For all the thrills we get from our kinks, impact play, bondage, suspension, there is also the lighter side we don’t often hear as much about.  Or perhaps it is that I don’t talk about it as much, read about it as much or focus on it as much as I do the other kinks I enjoy.  The tracing of a finger, the long stare, eyes connected and no need to look away.  These are things that have been brought to my attention lately. It has been a year since my D/s relationship ended.  Much of my focus has been on the loss kinks that I enjoyed during the time…

  • BDSM,  Decisions,  Every Damn Day In June,  Memes and Things

    Survive

    Surviving has been something I have done my entire life.  Like most people.  I am not unique in this quest.  The quest for happiness and well being.  The search and desire for a happy family, healthy children.  The continued fight for good health and a strong body.  Regardless of what our goals we all want to survive.  The level of survival is key to me, particularly at this point in my life. At 15 our family home caught fire.  My parents and my sister and I were out of town.  The furnace ignited and eventually blew up.  The entire inside of the house was in flames, only the outside shell…

  • BDSM,  Decisions,  Experiences,  kinks,  Lifestyle,  Memes and Things

    Rituals

    Rituals can be the bane of my existence at times.  I know I have them, I just don’t always follow through with them. My usual morning rituals or routine, are set and that usually goes really well.  I know what I have to do to get out the door.  Night time rituals are not as set in stone.  I don’t always wash my face (I know that is horrible), so when I do I am super proud of myself.  I have tried setting times, etc., but the night time seems more difficult for me to get into the swing. Sexually, to be honest, it has been so long I don’t…

  • BDSM,  Decisions,  Experiences,  kinks

    Unmentionable

    When Does It Matter to Mention the Unmentionable? When I saw this prompt I wanted to write something sexy and wonderful, but the term unmentionable brought a different thought process for me.  Sexy didn’t come to mind, so I am writing about what did.  I haven’t been writing a lot for multiple reasons.  Mostly because the sexy smutty stuff just wasn’t coming for me.  It’s been a whirlwind of problems and things coming up that has distracted me and caused me to just not feel like writing.  I am trying to not be too upset about it and just realize that sometimes this happens. Unmentionables could mean a lot of…

  • Blue and orange background with the words I wish
    BDSM,  Erotic Journal Challenge,  Experiences,  Memes and Things

    I wish…

    If wishes were horses, beggars would ride. I think about this a lot, in all aspects of life.  What if I had a wish, or three wishes for finance, happiness, for myself or for my friends and family.  Never being one for “bucket lists” or even wishing.  Learning early on that wishing rarely works without a lot of effort behind it.  Bucket lists always seemed like another way of setting up failure.  I believe it is good to have dreams and goals, but just wishing doesn’t make it so.  Shame, but it is the truth.  Sometimes the truth sucks. So thinking about three wishes in relation to my sexual side…