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This category is wide open for anything kinky!  My experiences, fantasies, questions, stories, opinions and anything else that comes to my kinky mind. Weekly memes and prompts from other amazing blogs and kinky folks.

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    Rituals

    Rituals can be the bane of my existence at times.  I know I have them, I just don’t always follow through with them. My usual morning rituals or routine, are set and that usually goes really well.  I know what I have to do to get out the door.  Night time rituals are not as set in stone.  I don’t always wash my face (I know that is horrible), so when I do I am super proud of myself.  I have tried setting times, etc., but the night time seems more difficult for me to get into the swing. Sexually, to be honest, it has been so long I don’t…

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    Unmentionable

    When Does It Matter to Mention the Unmentionable? When I saw this prompt I wanted to write something sexy and wonderful, but the term unmentionable brought a different thought process for me.  Sexy didn’t come to mind, so I am writing about what did.  I haven’t been writing a lot for multiple reasons.  Mostly because the sexy smutty stuff just wasn’t coming for me.  It’s been a whirlwind of problems and things coming up that has distracted me and caused me to just not feel like writing.  I am trying to not be too upset about it and just realize that sometimes this happens. Unmentionables could mean a lot of…

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    I wish…

    If wishes were horses, beggars would ride. I think about this a lot, in all aspects of life.  What if I had a wish, or three wishes for finance, happiness, for myself or for my friends and family.  Never being one for “bucket lists” or even wishing.  Learning early on that wishing rarely works without a lot of effort behind it.  Bucket lists always seemed like another way of setting up failure.  I believe it is good to have dreams and goals, but just wishing doesn’t make it so.  Shame, but it is the truth.  Sometimes the truth sucks. So thinking about three wishes in relation to my sexual side…

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    A letter of thanks from the light you brought out in me.

      Connecting emotions one breath at a time.  I have always been big on letters.  Perhaps it is the writer in me, I always find it easier to express myself in writing letters, poems, songs, and now I guess even blogs and books.  I have many things to say to my Ex, but as I think about them and write them, I wonder what is most important to express at this point.  He won’t see any of them, and even if it does make me feel better, is that why I write them?  Or am I holding on to something that I never really had?  Maybe I’ll never know. After…

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    The Power of the Touch of His Hand

    The power of him is transferred through me… Driving in the car, both of our arms on the middle console sometimes he will he reach for my hand.  When he does the power of him is transferred through me with tingles on all of my nerve endings.  He says nothing when he makes this gesture,  it is as if it is part of the ritual of riding in the car together, like fastening a seat belt or plugging his phone into the charger.  I feel the heat of his skin and I am instantly aware of every part myself inside and outside of my body. His fingers entwined in mine.  Sometimes…