- BDSM, Decisions, Experiences, kinks, Learning the Hard Way, Polyamorous, Protect Your Heart, Self Love, Sir/Daddy, Toy for Sir
Good People
I like good people and want to be around good people. When the past comes knocking on my door, I have never been one to leave it there standing on the porch. I have a lot of shit in my past, but I also feel that I learn from my experiences. I have learned not to live in the past and over the past three years, I have learned to place it in a safe place in my brain. Until now. My breakup with my Dom (first and only) has been a huge part of this blog. Our relationship prior to the breakup has been too. I write my feelings…
- Decisions, Experiences, January Jumpstart, Lifestyle, Memes and Things, Open Relationships, Polyamorous, Relationship Thoughts Old and New
Stay the Night
It had been a while since I shared my bed with someone. Even my Ex-what-ever-he-was never stayed the night with me. I always went to him. Although I had set my house up to his liking just in case, it ever happened. So when my current relationship said he could stay over, I was not only surprised and a little excited, I was also nervous. I haven’t talked much about him because I wasn’t sure where it was going. He is a good guy. Most of them are, but most of them also have issues, baggage, or in my case and history, someone else in their lives. Ugh! It is…
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Gratitude
Gratitude can be a struggle! I know that is a hard thing to wrap our brains around. So many people say it should not be a struggle. Just be grateful for what you have! I agree. To a point. I have gratitude and I am grateful for the things I have in my life. I have fought hard for all of it, not most of it, all of it. I have done it alone and with others but in the end, I know it is me that will have to pull out all the stops. Why? Because I want it more than anyone else does. (In most cases and depending…
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Doing Things or not Doing Things, it is a Choice!
Doing things or not doing things it is a choice. Every day we have a choice to make on all levels. Trying to keep within the legal limits, of course, we are faced with decisions and choices every day. How we handle those decisions and how we approach the choices we make is essential. We can all look back and wonder, “What the hell was I thinking?” but we can also look back and say, “Damn, I nailed that one!”. How we view our choices is also a choice. I was going through my phone, clearing some pictures off of it. I take pictures of memes, and different things as…
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Feeling Strappy Kinks
I am feeling strappy kinks! Maybe I am feeling strappy because it has been forever since I have experienced them. I love straps of any kind, in clothing, and how they feel when they graze my body. My biggest kink (thus far) is impact play. Spanking, crops, and belts have been my experience, and I love them all. Flogging is something that I have not experienced but hope that someday I will. Until then, I will settle for soft straps across my body. This suit was ordered during one of my sleep shopping nights. Silly, I know, but I honestly don’t remember ordering this! It came in the mail, and…
