• EroticonUK 2019,  Learning the Hard Way,  Lifestyle,  Random thoughts and processing,  Relationship Thoughts Old and New,  Writer Block,  Writings

    Breaking Through the Block

    I can’t remember the last time I posted anything or even what it was.  It has been a rough few weeks when it comes to writing.  Breaking through the block has always been tough for me.  I never had a process to breaking through the block that I was aware of, I just starting writing and got back on the horse.  This was different. I tried over and over again and either thought it was crap or got frustrated because there was no flow and deleted whatever was there. Thanks to my The Smutlancers friends on Patreon, I was challenged to write this weekend.  Or perhaps not challenged but made…

  • BDSM,  EroticonUK 2019,  kinks,  Learning the Hard Way,  Lifestyle,  London,  Random thoughts and processing,  Relationship Thoughts Old and New,  Sir/Daddy,  Toy for Sir

    A letter of thanks from the light you brought out in me.

      Connecting emotions one breath at a time.  I have always been big on letters.  Perhaps it is the writer in me, I always find it easier to express myself in writing letters, poems, songs, and now I guess even blogs and books.  I have many things to say to my Ex, but as I think about them and write them, I wonder what is most important to express at this point.  He won’t see any of them, and even if it does make me feel better, is that why I write them?  Or am I holding on to something that I never really had?  Maybe I’ll never know. After…

  • Boobday,  EroticonUK 2019,  Experiences,  Learning the Hard Way,  London

    Eroticon 2019!

    It has taken some time to get my thoughts together for this post.  I started it several times, and it was a draft in my folder. looming and waiting for publishing.  Eroticon 2019 was my first conference.   It was more than just a conference.   Perhaps that is why I was struggling to publish anything about it.  I wanted to make sure I did it justice.  Like most of my writing, I analyze and edit more than I can express.   This was more than a conference, it was an experience.  It was a life changing experience.  I doubt I can do it justice, but I will try. Making the Decision to…

  • a group of people shritless sharing their breast and faces covered black and white
    Boobday,  EroticonUK 2019

    Eroticon Boobs!!

    I have a lot to say about Eroticon 2019 and the amazing experience that it was.  One of the highlights and a great way to finish off the weekend was the Eroticon Boob photo!  Hyacinth, who has made boobs extra special with her Boobday meme that she runs on A Dissolute Life Means had the amazing idea of everyone getting together and taking these photos.  She sent it out on Twitter. I immediately responded, “I’m in!”.  Honestly, I didn’t hesitate for even a second.  The vibe from everyone at this conference was electric.  I knew there would be several people interested in taking part in this.  I had no idea how many…

  • EroticonUK 2019,  London

    Eroticon UK 2019 – Virtual Meet and Great!

    I will start by saying that I can’t express how excited (and nervous) I am about Eroticon!  It was a very impulsive decision to register, gather the funds for travel and hotel, and take the time off work, even though I thought about it for months!  The impulse came after reading everyone else talk about going and feeling like I was going to miss something amazing.  I don’t feel like I belong among all these wonderful people and that was what forced me to impulsively go!  Usually, I don’t do things on impulse so this is a change for me.  I couldn’t be happier about it. What is your name…