- BDSM, Decisions, Experiences, kinks, Learning the Hard Way, Polyamorous, Protect Your Heart, Self Love, Sir/Daddy, Toy for Sir
Good People
I like good people and want to be around good people. When the past comes knocking on my door, I have never been one to leave it there standing on the porch. I have a lot of shit in my past, but I also feel that I learn from my experiences. I have learned not to live in the past and over the past three years, I have learned to place it in a safe place in my brain. Until now. My breakup with my Dom (first and only) has been a huge part of this blog. Our relationship prior to the breakup has been too. I write my feelings…
- Erotic Journal Challenge, kinks, Lifestyle, Memes and Things, Relationship Thoughts Old and New, Self Love, Trust
Inspiration from unexpected sources
I have spent a lot of time looking for and finding inspiration. Inspiration has always come easy to me; it is the follow up that I struggle to conquer. It has taken me a long time to realize that inspiration comes from unexpected sources. I have never been someone to delve into a self-help book for answers. From the best to the worst, I usually finish the book, podcast, or seminar with the feeling that I already knew everything the said. It was just putting it into action that I struggled with finishing. I know in most parts of my life what I need to do. I should eat better…
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Doing Things or not Doing Things, it is a Choice!
Doing things or not doing things it is a choice. Every day we have a choice to make on all levels. Trying to keep within the legal limits, of course, we are faced with decisions and choices every day. How we handle those decisions and how we approach the choices we make is essential. We can all look back and wonder, “What the hell was I thinking?” but we can also look back and say, “Damn, I nailed that one!”. How we view our choices is also a choice. I was going through my phone, clearing some pictures off of it. I take pictures of memes, and different things as…
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Feeling Strappy Kinks
I am feeling strappy kinks! Maybe I am feeling strappy because it has been forever since I have experienced them. I love straps of any kind, in clothing, and how they feel when they graze my body. My biggest kink (thus far) is impact play. Spanking, crops, and belts have been my experience, and I love them all. Flogging is something that I have not experienced but hope that someday I will. Until then, I will settle for soft straps across my body. This suit was ordered during one of my sleep shopping nights. Silly, I know, but I honestly don’t remember ordering this! It came in the mail, and…
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She Wanted to Know
She wanted to know about him so badly. There was no one to ask, no one to reach out to, no one to trust. She sat alone in her house. The house she decorated for him. Some of his things still in place even if she is the only one that knows they are there. The carpets she bought so his dog wouldn’t be scared by her hardwood floors. She wanted to know how he was. She wanted to know how he was dealing with the world, his world, without her. Time has passed. A lot of time. There were days when she was ok. There were days when she…
