• morning sunrise over the ocean and beach
    Kink of the Week,  QuoteQuest

    Good Morning

    Back in the day I use to fear morning sex. If there was even a hint of it I would lay awake all night. Why? To be sure I would wake up first, brush my teeth, use the bathroom and do a quick wash up. I would then slide back into bed and lay there still. I honestly think the only thing I didn’t do was apply make up. I am happy to say that things changed. I have turned into a lover of morning sex. Being single kind of sucks right now because we are entering the fall season where the chilly night and mornings lend perfectly to snuggling…

  • talk to me two people sitting on a beach with a can of soda/beer between them dark blue sky
    Kink of the Week,  Memes and Things

    Talk to Me, About Me

    Talk to me, or about me; it will be something I obsess over. I have always had a paranoia about people talking about me. It didn’t matter if they were saying good things or bad things; I always thought people were talking. It wasn’t until recently that I found there are times I don’t mind it at all. I use to be worried that people would talk about me. If I was the first to leave a group, the entire way home was thoughts of what they said the minute I left. It didn’t matter if my brain allowed me to think there were good things to be said, I…

  • prioritize desk with a chalk board of list of things to do pad and pen and coffee on a desk
    Erotic Journal Challenge,  Memes and Things

    Prioritizing

    Prioritizing is an ever-changing and ongoing task in my daily routine. I don’t like clutter anywhere. My house and my desk are usually well put together and ready for the occasional unexpected guest. Just don’t open a draw or cabinet. I am reasonably skilled at organizing. Where I fall short in maintaining the organization that I have set in place, sometimes its a week, month, or even a year, but eventually, I find myself organizing again. When do I start the reorganization? When I am avoiding doing something that I don’t want to do or makes me uncomfortable. Prioritizing isn’t something that I am bad at doing. Like organizing, I…

  • fantasies are more than memories of my past feel woman in white dress under water looking cup at her refection in the water above
    Memes and Things,  QuoteQuest

    Fantasies

    Fantasies are sometimes more memories I would like to alter. “Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living, it’s a way of looking at life through the wrong end of a telescope, and that enables you to laugh at life’s realities.” ~ Dr. Seuss Dr. Seuss always has an interesting take on things. I never thought of it this way. Looking through the wrong end of a telescope is a task in itself, I suppose. I do fantasize quite a bit. I am not sure my thoughts are all fantasies, though. I can drift away to a different place and a different world or the other time from a memory easier…

  • are you watching tan legs on yellow chair facing a wood fence with grey house visible. Flowers and chain link fence visible with grass yard
    Kink of the Week,  Memes and Things,  Sinful Sunday

    Are You Watching?

    Watching or being watched, which do you prefer. A few years ago I would have answered this question differently. The thought of anyone watching me in any kind of sexual capacity would have made me shudder with anxiety. Looking back now, I see my feeling that way was low self-esteem, bad body image, self-loathing, you get the idea. Watching in the past. A year before I started my first D/s relationship, I met a very nice man. He was adventurous and became a very patient teacher. He talked about things I had never thought of, and some that I had thought about as well. This man respected my hesitance and…