• prioritize desk with a chalk board of list of things to do pad and pen and coffee on a desk
    Erotic Journal Challenge,  Memes and Things

    Prioritizing

    Prioritizing is an ever-changing and ongoing task in my daily routine. I don’t like clutter anywhere. My house and my desk are usually well put together and ready for the occasional unexpected guest. Just don’t open a draw or cabinet. I am reasonably skilled at organizing. Where I fall short in maintaining the organization that I have set in place, sometimes its a week, month, or even a year, but eventually, I find myself organizing again. When do I start the reorganization? When I am avoiding doing something that I don’t want to do or makes me uncomfortable. Prioritizing isn’t something that I am bad at doing. Like organizing, I…

  • dark background with woman face shown only below the nose. red lips and bright red lips with tongue sticking to the side with lust
    Erotic Journal Challenge,  Memes and Things

    Lust

    Lust isn’t always about sex! Shocking I know, but it is true. We lust after food, a good movie, comfy pants, or no pants at all. We lust after a time when we were younger, thinner, more active. Times when life was easier. We can lust over just about anything! Lust, as it relates to sex, becomes more complicated. Or does it? You can lust over the touch of someone, the sound of their whisper in your ear, or a cuddle on the couch watching a stupid movie that you care nothing about, but, you’re cuddling so you don’t care. This is a lust I have a lot. Don’t we…

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    Inspiration from unexpected sources

    I have spent a lot of time looking for and finding inspiration. Inspiration has always come easy to me; it is the follow up that I struggle to conquer.  It has taken me a long time to realize that inspiration comes from unexpected sources.  I have never been someone to delve into a self-help book for answers.  From the best to the worst, I usually finish the book, podcast, or seminar with the feeling that I already knew everything the said.  It was just putting it into action that I struggled with finishing. I know in most parts of my life what I need to do.  I should eat better…

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    Relax

    Just relax.  Calm down, and everything will work out just fine.  Breathe.  I’m sure we have all heard these phrases of condolences and trying to inspire hope.  I get it.  What else can you say?  Everyone is feeling the pressure from our current state in the world.  Bottom line?  There are no words that induce relaxation. In November of 2019, I adopted a puppy.  He is a German Shepherd puppy.  The last thing I needed was a puppy.  I already had a great dog who had settled in his ways, and we had a good routine.  We could relax as much as we wanted.  The puppy changed that.  He is…

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    Curious

    Being curious about the unknown is not a bad thing.  It is tricky though.  For me, the fear has always beat out curiosity.  I can look back on all the chapters of my life and see where I was curious about things but was afraid to follow up on them and fail.  I think that is normal for most excluding those folks that live on adrenalin and thrive on beating the odds.  I am not one of those people.  Sometimes, I wish I was like those folks but at this point, I am who I am.  One of the things that I realize my fear of failing that killed my…