Writings

Writings is a category similar to thoughts, but these thoughts tend to take the form of poetry or songs.

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    BDSM,  Toy for Sir,  Writings

    The Office Sex

    Writing about office sex was so fun!  I could not be any more excited to be a guest blogger on Kaylalords.com!  My story, The Office, is a true story and one of my favorite times spent with Daddy! Being a new blogger and new to the kinky community I am always overwhelmed by how welcoming and supportive everyone is.  It means a lot to newcomers to be able to branch out and get our stories out there.  There is never enough confidence in this body of mine.  Being featured on Loving BDSM is definitely a goal met. I started listening to Loving BDSM about two years ago.  Then, I stalked the…

  • BDSM,  Experiences,  Writings

    Confessions of Feelings

    I know, as sure as I am writing these words that I need to eat better.  I have been thinking a lot about health issues lately.  This year has been hard and as it comes to a close I try to be reflective but I just don’t feel like it.  I know all the things I should do.  Eat better.  Exercise more.  Take care of my mental health as well.  To be honest, I just don’t feel like doing any of it. Work has had nothing but holiday parties.  I go and make an appearance but I don’t eat.  Everyone is asking why I am not eating and what is wrong.  I…

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    Thoughts,  Writings

    She likes this… She doesn’t like this.

    He is nice.  He is quiet.  He has a cute, hidden sense of humor that comes out only after you know him.  She likes this. He loves dogs, has two of them.  He takes his dogs everywhere with him.  He spends a lot of time with his family.  Visits his parents and helps them around the house.  She likes this. He is a good grandpa.  Not sure he likes that title.  She likes this. He knows her past, her baggage, and what scares her (some of it).  She likes this. He has a bad boy streak.  Tattoos and piercings.  He uses the F-word as an adjective.  She likes this. He…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Learning the Hard Way,  Thoughts,  Writings

    Tasks and Rituals

    Can you think of tasks or rituals you already have or some you think you’d like to have that could be incorporated in a current or future D/s relationship? In my future D/s relationship I do want tasks and rituals.  I am that type of person.  I want to know what is expected and when it is expected.  I am a rule follower and I tend to thrive in those kinds of situations. In my past relationship, it was complicated by friendship.  I was never sure when I arrived to his house if I should kneel at his feet or sit next to him on the couch.  Make him drinks…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Learning the Hard Way,  Thoughts,  Writings

    When a D/s relationship ends…

    This was today’s thought-provoking email.  I don’t know how to respond to this one.  On Monday, my Sir told me we were through.  I made a mistake.  A big one.  He responded with the heat and temper I had witnessed but it was never directed at me.  Through text, he told me I was manipulative and I had hurt him too much, he was done.  He even said “fuck you, T…” using my real name and not the name he gave me.  He is furious, done with me and has not spoken to me since.  He told me to move on. Devastated doesn’t cover it.  I am mourning not only…