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    Unapologetically Me

    I am unapologetically me. It has taken me a very long time to get to this point. I am 57 years old. Unfortunately I think this realization has only come to fruition over the last three years. I have made mistakes. Big ones and little ones. I have learned from every single one of those mistakes. Some of these mistakes I made more than once. That I apologize for, but I apologize to myself. I am not evil, and I do not go out and see who I can hurt or ruin. I live my life as the best person that I can be. I try to be honest, and…

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    February Photofest 2022

    Pearls

    Pearls come in all shapes and sizes. I love jewelry no matter where I wear it. Necklace, bracelets, and rings. This little gem was a fantastic find. When I was sent the link for this thong by Daddy, I was excited and a little leary. I wasn’t sure what this would look like on me. On the model in the link, it looked lovely. I was concerned that it would not look the same. Guess what. It doesn’t, and that is just fine. I received it and let it sit on the dresser for about a week. I wasn’t in a hurry because I wouldn’t see Daddy for a while.…

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    February Photofest 2022

    Entrance

    Entrance into my body is permitted with consent and willingness. I feel complete. Three weeks of no touching, no fucking, no contact except for text and zoom calls, today was much needed. Long-distance relationships, regardless of their structure or distance, are complex. I am learning to deal with it, but it still sucks. There are long days and weekends when we feel disconnected. We wonder if we are thinking about each other, missing each other, or fucking others. We have made our agreements and dealt with our situation as best as possible. The most challenging part is not showing others how we are feeling inside. The best part of a…

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    February Photofest 2022

    Boots

    Sometimes the proper boots are all you need to feel how you need to feel. I love shoes, and while I have plenty, I didn’t have those boots. The ones that say you are feeling sexy from head to toe. I have a lot of sexy tops that I usually pair with jeans. I don’t go out to clubs much, so I have never needed boots like these. That has changed slightly, and I am preparing my wardrobe for the trips to the clubs. I recently joined a swingers club. I am not a swinger persea, but I enjoy being around like-minded people, and I found that it was comfortable,…

  • stretch white woman with black and red bra leaning forward with legs stretched out light borwn curly hair parted tot he side
    February Photofest 2022

    Stretch

    Nothing beats a good stretch! It is good for the body and the soul. There are many reasons to stretch. Some are better than others. Before you do your workout or exercise, you stretch and warm up. It makes sense. You are about to stress your muscles and break them down, so they come back stronger and start burning all the fat you see covering the muscles. When you stretch, you reduce the risk of injury. Very important when you are working out so you can work out the next day without looking like Bambi on the lake! Let’s face it, that look is only cute on Bambi. When we…