• naked torso of woman with red coffee cup and black blanket
    February Photofest 2022

    Lazy Coffee Mornings

    I am not a morning person. One of my favorite things is to lay in bed with coffee, and I call this my lazy coffee mornings. I cherish these mornings more than I should. They are sometimes relaxing, and I can take my time with them. Most of the time, these lazy coffee mornings are filled with guilt and anxiety for all the things I need to do. I live alone and since my daughter and her partner have moved out I can walk around the house naked whenever I want, and I do. I don’t really care what the neighbors see and the only time I have to worry…

  • BDSM,  Learning the Hard Way

    Community, Cliques and Making Friends

    via Community, Cliques and Making Friends.   This is an amazing read.  Much of how I felt when I started blogging was that I wasn’t worthy of association with these authors that push the limits and write about consensual, kinky,  sex in ways I thought I could only imagine.  There are community, cliques and making friends in all aspects of our lives.  In the kink community, it can be a little more difficult. In the beginning, I was clueless, I just knew I wanted to write.   I also wanted to blog and tweet and do all of those things.  Newbies have wonderful mentors and role models.  We should reach out…