• stay the night bed red and black covers folded down for two light from window coming in
    Decisions,  Experiences,  January Jumpstart,  Lifestyle,  Memes and Things,  Open Relationships,  Polyamorous,  Relationship Thoughts Old and New

    Stay the Night

    It had been a while since I shared my bed with someone. Even my Ex-what-ever-he-was never stayed the night with me. I always went to him. Although I had set my house up to his liking just in case, it ever happened. So when my current relationship said he could stay over, I was not only surprised and a little excited, I was also nervous. I haven’t talked much about him because I wasn’t sure where it was going. He is a good guy. Most of them are, but most of them also have issues, baggage, or in my case and history, someone else in their lives. Ugh! It is…

  • dark background with woman face shown only below the nose. red lips and bright red lips with tongue sticking to the side with lust
    Erotic Journal Challenge,  Memes and Things

    Lust

    Lust isn’t always about sex! Shocking I know, but it is true. We lust after food, a good movie, comfy pants, or no pants at all. We lust after a time when we were younger, thinner, more active. Times when life was easier. We can lust over just about anything! Lust, as it relates to sex, becomes more complicated. Or does it? You can lust over the touch of someone, the sound of their whisper in your ear, or a cuddle on the couch watching a stupid movie that you care nothing about, but, you’re cuddling so you don’t care. This is a lust I have a lot. Don’t we…

  • black and white slightly blurry photo of two bodies legs wrapped around waste
    February Photofest 2020,  February Photofest 2020,  Memes and Things

    Day 13 – Black and White

    I often hear the phrase, “it is black and white.”  Typically this means that whatever the subject up for discussion is clear.  There is no misunderstanding and it is exactly what it appears to be.  That’s lovely to think there is such a thing but I call bullshit. Black and white as never been clear to me.  I can always find the greys and shadows and light.  In the guise of different perspectives, different cultures, different beliefs, nothing is black and white or cut and dry.  The idioms, one line analogies, and labels we place on things are rarely what it appears to be.  It is a shame that we…