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    Masturbation Monday

    Watching Him Shower

    I love watching him shower.  There is something so personal about watching someone bathe.  I sat on the floor and watched as he went through his normal ritual and routines.   He is so at ease with me watching and I remember thinking that I would feel self-conscious if someone was watching me as intently as I was watching him.  I couldn’t take my eyes off of him.  Avoiding looking at his cock, partly out of my normal shyness but also realizing that his whole body was hypnotic as he moved from shampoo to soap to conditioner. We were talking like we were at the kitchen table and it seemed…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  BDSM,  Learning the Hard Way,  Thoughts

    D/s 24/7?

    Do you want to go to 24/7 at some point? I have always thought that I did.  Now I am not so sure. Why or why not? My one and only experience in D/s was long distance and under cover of sorts.  I enjoyed the idea of things, but I am not sure I would classify it as D/s.  I enjoy doing things for people.  I enjoy having tasks and things that I need to do.  It makes me feel productive when I have a list of things to do and I accomplish them.  This is me, and I am not sure if it is solely D/s. Having said that,…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Learning the Hard Way,  Thoughts,  Writings

    D/s without sex??

    Have you ever considered D/s without a sexual component? Woah!  Nope!  Admittedly, with sex is the only D/s I have known or heard about, but recent research has shown there is more to it than the norm.  (Go figure).  Although with my current situation it feels like D/s with no sex and most of the times, no D/s. Would you be interested in something like it? You know… maybe.  I’ve been so caught up in my current situation with my current Dom that I never really think about anything other than fixing what is wrong “currently”.  But… I like being submissive and I like serving so I am curious if…