• book opened to a page with a list of choices in a column
    Decisions,  Distress,  kinks,  Learning the Hard Way,  Self Love

    Doing Things or not Doing Things, it is a Choice!

    Doing things or not doing things it is a choice. Every day we have a choice to make on all levels.  Trying to keep within the legal limits, of course, we are faced with decisions and choices every day.  How we handle those decisions and how we approach the choices we make is essential.  We can all look back and wonder, “What the hell was I thinking?” but we can also look back and say, “Damn, I nailed that one!”.  How we view our choices is also a choice. I was going through my phone, clearing some pictures off of it.  I take pictures of memes, and different things as…

  • Aging,  Memes and Things

    Defying the Odds

        There is much talk about menopause and its impacts and effects.  I get it.  I tend to push hard against the symptoms regularly.  There is still a little bit of me that wants to deny this is happening to me.  I guess some things you just have to accept.  I enjoy defying the odds on this issue.  Am I ashamed to be of the age where menopause is a possibility for any of my issues?  Yep, a little.  Defying the odds isn’t like a full-time job for me, but I prefer menopause not to be the first diagnosis that comes to mind. Okay, I can acquiesce on some things.…