• 30 Days of D/s,  Learning the Hard Way,  Thoughts,  Writings

    When a D/s relationship ends…

    This was today’s thought-provoking email.  I don’t know how to respond to this one.  On Monday, my Sir told me we were through.  I made a mistake.  A big one.  He responded with the heat and temper I had witnessed but it was never directed at me.  Through text, he told me I was manipulative and I had hurt him too much, he was done.  He even said “fuck you, T…” using my real name and not the name he gave me.  He is furious, done with me and has not spoken to me since.  He told me to move on. Devastated doesn’t cover it.  I am mourning not only…