• prioritize desk with a chalk board of list of things to do pad and pen and coffee on a desk
    Erotic Journal Challenge,  Memes and Things


    Prioritizing is an ever-changing and ongoing task in my daily routine. I don’t like clutter anywhere. My house and my desk are usually well put together and ready for the occasional unexpected guest. Just don’t open a draw or cabinet. I am reasonably skilled at organizing. Where I fall short in maintaining the organization that I have set in place, sometimes its a week, month, or even a year, but eventually, I find myself organizing again. When do I start the reorganization? When I am avoiding doing something that I don’t want to do or makes me uncomfortable. Prioritizing isn’t something that I am bad at doing. Like organizing, I…

  • dark background with woman face shown only below the nose. red lips and bright red lips with tongue sticking to the side with lust
    Erotic Journal Challenge,  Memes and Things


    Lust isn’t always about sex! Shocking I know, but it is true. We lust after food, a good movie, comfy pants, or no pants at all. We lust after a time when we were younger, thinner, more active. Times when life was easier. We can lust over just about anything! Lust, as it relates to sex, becomes more complicated. Or does it? You can lust over the touch of someone, the sound of their whisper in your ear, or a cuddle on the couch watching a stupid movie that you care nothing about, but, you’re cuddling so you don’t care. This is a lust I have a lot. Don’t we…

  • green and blue background with white text saying In order to be who you are, you must be willing to let go of who you thing you are
    Erotic Journal Challenge,  Memes and Things


    Realization – Write about a time when you realized something about your sexuality. I copied the quote above because I believe this was the core of my realization about my sexuality.  Actually, it is the core of all my realizations about myself, regardless of what aspect of my life.  Focusing on my sexuality and any of my realizations is easier than addressing the other parts of my life, believe it or not.  Or, maybe it is an equal balance.  The problem is, I don’t have just one realization in reference to my sexuality.  There are many and there continues to be many.  This is also very cloudy and I struggle…

  • Erotic Journal Challenge,  February Photofest 2019

    What makes you feel sexy?

    Erotic Journal Challenge – What makes you feel sexy?.   I truly never felt sexy.  Ever.  It wasn’t until I started to get to know my “Ex” that I started to feel sexy.  He had a way of complimenting me when our friendship started that made me feel good about myself.  I was 17 years older than him and he didn’t seem to notice.  My age didn’t matter, nor did my signs of aging matter.  He was being honest about his perspective of me. I grew to like his perspective of me better than my perspective of me.  Interesting and strange to me that I wasn’t even trying with this…

  • Erotic Journal Challenge,  Memes and Things

    What were you taught about sex as you grew up?

    Prompt #11: Sex Ed What were you taught about sex as you grew up? Well, I love my mother, she was only doing what she could.  I was handed pamphlets, some pads (tampons were not discussed until much later) and she said if I had any questions I could ask.  There was very little about sex and more about monthly periods.  There was a slight mention of getting pregnant being more likely if you have your period.  I remember in school watching a girl bully the really quiet kid.  To this day, I still remember both of their names.  She was asking him if he played with himself and came…