• 30 Days of D/s,  Learning the Hard Way,  Thoughts

    Spanking as punishment?

    As a submissive, would you consent to a painful spanking as punishment? Yes, I would and do.  It is interesting to me and surprising as well.  When Daddy and I first started talking about moving forward with our D/s relationship we talked A Lot about what I thought it was and what I wanted.  I had always had an interest, but it was always taboo.  The one man I shared my thoughts with turned out to be a nightmare and used it against me in the most horrible way possible.  He made me feel guilty about my desire for pain and inflicted pain without consent to the point that I…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Learning the Hard Way,  Thoughts

    Punishments, yes or no?

    As a submissive, are you willing to allow a Dominant to discipline or punish you in your relationship? Yes, I am willing.  At the beginning of this journey, this always puzzled me.  I was learning what I liked and didn’t like a little at a time.  It was a long process because it was part-time.  Most of the conversations were through text or over the phone.  Rarely face to face.  At the time, that was a blessing for me because I was embarrassed to express my ignorance about many things.  But one of the things that I had realized is that I liked spankings.  Now I realize I like all…