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    Unapologetically Me

    I am unapologetically me. It has taken me a very long time to get to this point. I am 57 years old. Unfortunately I think this realization has only come to fruition over the last three years. I have made mistakes. Big ones and little ones. I have learned from every single one of those mistakes. Some of these mistakes I made more than once. That I apologize for, but I apologize to myself. I am not evil, and I do not go out and see who I can hurt or ruin. I live my life as the best person that I can be. I try to be honest, and…

  • love yourself, black background spot light in the middle, white woman squating down with black boots and beigh sweater covering her arms and butt.
    February Photofest 2022

    Just One Day of Love?

    Valentines Day is just annoying to me. Just one day of love? Shouldn’t this be something we focus on year-round? My birthday is February 15. The day after the day of love. When I was a kid, my Dad would always show up on Valentine’s Day with a small stuffed animal and a small candy box for my sister and me. That is my best memory of this day. As I got older, it just got annoying. Valentines Day became a challenge for men (back in the day, that was the focus, so don’t shoot me with feminism on this one. I’m 57 years old today – it was literally…

  • Blury picture of flesh colored background with red and dark red marks
    February Photofest 2022

    Dark Red

    I may be a bit obsessed with dark red marks and bruises. After three years of not having them, I embrace them now with a passion that matches their color. These beautiful marks happened this morning during electric and satisfying and exhausting sex! I do not usually brag, but I will boast a lot about this situation. I may also be bragging a bit. Bragging or boasting may be the wrong word. Can you boast about something that comes easily to you? I am sure that many people, couples, threesomes, and swingers can indeed boast about their sex lives. Many people have great sex. I take particular exception because there…

  • white woman naked from stomach to neck, soapy suds on shoulder, steam from shower, beach wave necklace
    February Photofest 2022


    Shower vibes are great when you don’t have anywhere to be. Daddy likes me to send him a picture every morning since we can not be together. It is usually of my breast and occasionally my pussy. After several images of my breast at the desk, I decided to change things up. This morning, I was actually on my way to see him. I love being clean for him. I make sure to have my body in the way he likes it. Daddy isn’t picky and loves how I look. I worry about it more than he does. I am careful to shave and use shampoo and soap that smells…

  • round cheek of white womans ass with red marks made from several smacks with a hand shadow on lower half of picture
    BDSM,  February Photofest 2022,  kinks

    Red Marks

    There is something about red marks that make me happy. I love the color that spanks on my ass create. I am not a fan of my ass. It has never made me feel sexy, and when I see it, I usually am disappointed at its shape and wrinkles. I am trying to love and appreciate my body more these days. My body has been through a lot. The scars I have are signs of the battles I have been through, and I am learning to accept them. My ass has never let me down. I’m thankful for that. I am also very grateful that it responds to spankings, paddles…