• Wine and whiskey four women grey shirts all say day drinking because 2020 sucks arm in arm no faces visible
    Friendship,  Sisterhood,  Trust

    Two Parts Wine, Two Parts Whiskey

    Whiskey, wine, and women have been, for the past year, a theme in my existence. Usually, they are experienced separately. This weekend, they were all together in beautiful harmony. I never imagined that my need to get out of my environment to someplace new for the first time since the pandemic hit would lead to one of the best weekends in my memory to date. Four women and a dog head out to a little town in West Virginia to escape our realities. We packed comfy clothes, lots of food, and a lot of wine and whiskey. We were all struggling. It wasn’t just the pandemic but the personal issues…

  • prioritize desk with a chalk board of list of things to do pad and pen and coffee on a desk
    Erotic Journal Challenge,  Memes and Things

    Prioritizing

    Prioritizing is an ever-changing and ongoing task in my daily routine. I don’t like clutter anywhere. My house and my desk are usually well put together and ready for the occasional unexpected guest. Just don’t open a draw or cabinet. I am reasonably skilled at organizing. Where I fall short in maintaining the organization that I have set in place, sometimes its a week, month, or even a year, but eventually, I find myself organizing again. When do I start the reorganization? When I am avoiding doing something that I don’t want to do or makes me uncomfortable. Prioritizing isn’t something that I am bad at doing. Like organizing, I…

  • darkness and light white women mother daughter both wearing grey clothing blonde hair and smiling for a selfie photo in the car
    Memes and Things,  Mom Moments,  Protect Your Heart,  QuoteQuest,  Self Love

    Darkness

    “Only when we are brave enough to explore the darkness will we discover the infinite power of our light.”~ Brene Brown This quote, as many have stated can bring up a lot inside me. There are so many avenues I could go down with just this one quote. Today, however, I have darkness. In my soul and in my heart. Darkness that is my own, but born from a darkness that is in my daughter. There are never enough words for me to express the love I have for my daughter. It isn’t just love, but respect that she will never believe I have. She has made mistakes. I have…

  • White body with Burgundy bra with detailed crochet design
    lingerie is for Everyone,  Memes and Things

    Bra Discovery

    Sometimes, the simple thing like a bra discovery can make my day.  Through this Covid19 situation, I have been pleased about one thing.  I think, since March I have worn a bra maybe three times.  I love being naked, and if I can’t be naked, at least I can get by without a bra, under a T-shirt.  I started cleaning and purging some clothes and found this beautiful bra.  I ordered it with something sexy in mind with my person – and that ended abruptly, so I tucked in the drawer and forgot about it.  This bra discovery made me think that I should start buying things for me!  Just me!…

  • book opened to a page with a list of choices in a column
    Decisions,  Distress,  kinks,  Learning the Hard Way,  Self Love

    Doing Things or not Doing Things, it is a Choice!

    Doing things or not doing things it is a choice. Every day we have a choice to make on all levels.  Trying to keep within the legal limits, of course, we are faced with decisions and choices every day.  How we handle those decisions and how we approach the choices we make is essential.  We can all look back and wonder, “What the hell was I thinking?” but we can also look back and say, “Damn, I nailed that one!”.  How we view our choices is also a choice. I was going through my phone, clearing some pictures off of it.  I take pictures of memes, and different things as…