• BDSM,  Decisions,  February Photofest 2019

    Why is something that is suppose to be good for you such a chore?

    Ugh!  The gym.  Why is something that is supposed to be good for you such a chore?  She has heard that if you do something for 30 days it becomes a habit.  She can eat pizza every day for 30 days, instant habit.  She has been going to the gym for over six months, not a habit.  It is a forced act done with dread.  It almost makes her angry.  She always feels better when she gets there and proud when it is done.  If not for the strength of the workout, for the fact that she actually got there, to begin with. She doesn’t dress fancy.  No thirty dollar…

  • BDSM,  Thoughts

    She Didn’t Care

    She entered the store more frustrated then she wanted to me.  She had driven all the way home to realize the security tag was still on the blouse she bought for an event that night.  Knowing that returning the blouse meant the relaxing afternoon of a warm bath and slow “getting ready process” was out the window.  Yes, she was frustrated.  She rarely plans for a warm bath and now she would be hurried to get ready for her dinner with her college friends.  She also knew that none of these ladies give a damn what she looks like and most likely will all show up in jeans and hoodies. …